Real Men, What A Man is Not, Point #2
Definition of a man: What a man is not
Point #2: False Pretense
A man does not sleep with a woman under the pretense of love when all they want is sex. Thus it follows; a man would be honest and upfront with their intentions, feelings and emotions. Not taking advantage of a woman's inherent ability to associate sex with love and misleading a woman into thinking they cared for her because they are sleeping with her.
Friends with benefits is ok, if you have both decided it is just friends with benefits.
CAUTION: It is my experience that eventually someone will start to feel more than just friendship and sexual prowess, therefore, this situation should not be entered into unless there is a high level of communication and understanding between the two people (a.k.a. do not enter into this situation with a Peter Pan, it is a recipe for disaster!) And will usually end in someone, or both parties, getting hurt. My personal recommendation is hold out on the sex and wait until a real man comes along, but I know, that means you may be waiting a REALLY long time!
Tomorrow Point #3: Honesty
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