Real Men, What A Man Is Not, Point #3
Definition of a man: What a man is not
Point #3: Honesty
A man is not scared to tell you how he feels, good or bad. Hence, if a man likes you, he would not play games, run away, or act funny, he would simply state that he likes you and wait for your response. And if a man does not like you, he would not just stop returning your calls, continue to sleep with you until something better comes along, or sleep with you and other women at the same time, he would declare that he does not like you, give you a valid reason, and walk away.
WARNING: There are some Peter Pan's out there masquerading as men, who think by telling you one thing and doing another, they are fulfilling their obligation of communicating their feelings. Do not be fooled! So,
Point #3: Addendum
A man would not hide behind fake communication to pursue his own agenda. A man understands that actions speak louder than words. Therefore, they would never, for example, say they are not ready for a relationship and just want to be friends, and then kiss a woman. They would understand this is a mixed signal, and unfair. A man would think before he acts, and not allow sexual desire to overpower his inherent necessity to care for others and not hurt them. "This was not supposed to happen" is not an acceptable excuse for hasty actions for a man. See Point #4.
Tomorrow Point 4: Fear
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Comments
doing a great job 20 something girl.....love ya whole bunches 40 something mom!
Posted by: Ann Castle | February 21, 2007 02:30 PM