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Definition of a man: What a man is not

Point #4: Fear
A man is not someone who refuses to enter into a relationship simply because they are afraid of being hurt, unable to discuss emotion, scared of getting trapped, etc. Therefore, a man would understand their reservations and would choose to a) deal with them in a healthy way by analyzing their feelings and attempting to grow through communication and mutual understanding or b) simply not get into a relationship situation until they have chosen option a, which is a sign of acting responsibly.

Let me further explain what "not getting into a relationship situation" means. You do not kiss a woman, become intimate with a woman, or cross the friendship boundary line unless you want to be more than friends and are willing to deal with the responsibility that comes with that decision, or you have discussed the situation and reciprocate the idea of it being "friends with benefits" (this is a very dangerous situation to get into for both men (or Peter Pans) and women and should be entered into with extreme caution!) see Point #2

Tomorrow Point #5: The “X” Factor